OMG! My mom’s on Facebook!
November 25th, 2009 by Marie-Michèle CauxWhen I received a friend request from my mother on Facebook, my first reaction was to go through all the information on my profile: the messages on my wall, my status updates, photos, groups, EVERYTHING! I finally realized that there was nothing there that would shock her; there was nothing on my profile that she didn’t already know about my interests and social life. I accepted her request.
When this kind of situation arises, some people automatically refuse the request; others accept, but give their parents limited access. The decision is up to you. You know your parents… and their real intentions
Facebook can be a good thing if it’s used the right way. Increasingly popular, social networking sites allow us to create a second identity, a digital identity that goes beyond who we are physically and how we think of ourselves. It’s a platform that many of us use to reveal ourselves, in the simplest forms, through status updates, the likes and interests listed in our personal information, and photos illustrating our lifestyle. The most important thing to keep in mind is that all this information is public and permanent.
Whether it’s a stranger, your parents, your colleagues or your employer who looks at your profile, you should be comfortable with the information that they can view. If you think that a certain photo or information should not be seen by these people, you should not post it online. Screen what you upload. Using Facebook appropriately will avoid any uneasiness.
If having your parents on Facebook makes you uncomfortable because they are constantly writing messages on your wall and commenting on everything you do, then it’s at your discretion to reject their friend request or give them limited access. I encourage you to visit a site that I found very funny called Oh Crap. My Parents Joined Facebook. It was created by two twenty-something girls who discuss and give examples of the parent child relationship on Facebook. A really interesting concept!
Lastly, just try to use the Internet to your advantage. Adjust your privacy settings and, above all, think before you click.